LIARS

Okay, first and foremost let's take a look at the definition as it is posted on dictioary.com:..:
l
i·ar a person who tells lies. ..>
And the given definition for a lie is as follows:

lie1 noun, verb, lied, ly·ing.
–noun

1. a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood.

2. something intended or serving to convey a false impression; imposture: His flashy car was a lie that deceived no one. ..>

3. an inaccurate or false statement. ..>

The word deceive as it is given in the first definition of lie is a very strong word. In order for one to deceive you they must either think you are dumb or feel some sense of intellectual superiority that gives them the impression they will be able to out wit you. Thus insulting your intelligence and showing absolutely no respect for you as a human being.

We have all told lies, tell lies and will more than likely lie in the future. In my book there is not little white lie, or harmless lie. Each false word that comes out of our mouth has a definite reaction somewhere down the line.

It is a new year and I have a new agenda....take out all liars. Catch them up in their tracks. Let them dig themselves into a hole that will be impossible to get out of and then stand there once they are all caught up and watch them scoop dirt onto the crowns of their heads until they are suffocating in their own enunciated filth.

Maybe I hate lying so much because I am not very good at it and have never really had the opportunity to reap anything positive or beneficial from the act there of. But for all those individuals who feel the need to out wit me or trick me, or fool me...I can't not wait to hear the sounds you make while suffocating and gasping for breath as you are choked by your own words.

j

If YOU WANT IT YOU CAN GET IT

This past Saturday I went out with a friend of mine to a lounge to support his efforts on finding a white girl. Now when I go out in Dallas I usually put very little effort into my appearance because one I am in Dallas and two I really don't want to hurt anyone with my flyness. But this particular Saturday I was in a black dress 4" stilettos and juicy reddish pink lips sort of mood. And since it was a little chilly out, I went ahead and threw on a fur to keep from catching cold, and to lok fly.

Throughout the evening I chopped it up with a few men, but one held my attention most of the time I was at the lounge. Very nice looking, smooth skin beautiful complexion and perfect teeth. And surprisingly enough he was black. I felt like I knew him from way back. He got my weird sense of humor and understood my slang. Well come to find out he was from Nevada and had spent a lot of time in Los Angele so I guess we had some sort of west coast connection. We laughed at various club-goers and shared our experiences living in Dallas.

Well towards the end of the night he offered his number and I gave him mine thinking finally I am starting to meet some cool people in Dallas. People that I can vibe with and understand. We talked well after the lights came on and as we were walking out of the club he came up behind me and whispered in my ear, "You can get it if you want it."

WTH is that. I can get it if I want. Well now I don't want it because you just let me know it was on the clearance rack. I wish I could find some sort of happy medium when it comes to men in this part of the country because I can not figure them out. Even the transplants.

He then called me later on that evening to see if I made it home safely and to reiterate his closing statement. I felt more than obliged to let him know that I thought he would make a really good friend as we seem to have quite a few things in common, but as far as anything else I really wasn't interested in a relationship whether serious or just a friend with benefits. Which was hard to say especially since, I was trying to stop my mind from wondering places it shouldn't the whole time we were talking.

These weirdos in Dallas make my celibate life more than easy when it comes to the stock of men I have to choose from. WOW, nine months, eleven days and almost two hours.

What is a girl to do?

j

Weight Loss Jounral 2

sO THIS IS WEEK TWO OF THE WEIGHT LOSS EFFORT AND i HAVE DECIDED THAT i NEED TO STEP IT UP ANOTHER NOTCH. nOT ONLY WILL i BE WORKING OUT TWICE A DAY ALL WEEK NEXT WEEK, i AM GOINGT O CUT EVEN MORE OUT OF MY DIET. i HAVE GOT TO WIN THIS COMPETITION. i ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO.

wE HAVE TO WEIGH IN ON SUNDAY, AND i AM NOT SO CERTAIN THAT i AM GOING TO BE HAPPY WITH THE RESULTS. tHE PAST TWO DAYS HAVE BEEN A LITTLE ROUGH.

bUT i AM NOT THROWING IN THE TOWEL, i AM GOING TO PRESS TOWARDS THE MARK AND i WILL WIN.

j

Laughing @ U Not w/ U

Every year around this time I find myself in front of the television waiting for the new season of American Idol to start. I am not a fan of the show at all but I love to watch them rake through the tens of thousands of Americans that truly believe that have that spark and don't.

I don't care to see the Carrie Underwood and Kelly Clarkson's-to-be. My main goal is to laugh uncontrollably at the William Hon's and Big Bird Girl's. I don't want to see if I can determine who will be the next American Idol by their auditions. I want to see the social rejects, the IT nerds with the harmonica's and the Goth's and with their tone death harmony and multi-colored hair.

I watch for the looks of shock and disappointment on their faces when Simon says thins like, That sounded like the noise a cat makes when it falls from the roof of the Empire State Bldg while a siren is going off.

And I am laughing at these poor people in all of their ignorance. Can they not hear themselves? Do they really not know how horrible they sound? We can hear them, but they can not hear themselves?

And I do not feel bad about it, because I feel that any that puts themselves out there is open to the response of the public.


j

Complainers

I CAN NOT STAND PEOPLE THAT COMPLAIN ABOUT THINGS THAT ARE OUT OF THEIR CONTROL, OR THINGS THEY SHOULD NOT COMPLAIN ABOUT AT ALL.

THERE IS A LADY AT MY JOB WHO IS JUST PLAIN OLD RUDE. AND SHE DOES NOT LIKE THE COKE ZERO THAT THE COMPANY BUYS. SO ONCE ALL THE DIET COKE IS GONE SHE IS FORCED TO DRINK THE FREE COKE ZERO AND SHE COMPLAINS ABOUT IT. WHICH FOR THE LIFE OF ME I DO NOT UNDERSTAND. IF YOU HATE THE COKE ZERO SO MUCH, STOP DRINKING IT. WALK YOUR HILLBILLIE BROKE A** 10 FEET IN THE OTHER DIRECTION TO THE VENDING MACHINE AND BUY A DIET COKE FOR $1.00 IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT. BUT GET OUT OF MY OFICE COMPLAINING ABOUT FREE SODA THE COMPANY DOES NOT HAVE TO PROVIDE FOR YOUR THIRSTY A**

IF I DO NOT LIKE SOMETHING I DO NOT PUT UP WITH IT OR TAKE IT JUST BECAUSE IT IS FREE. THAT IS STUPID. AND EVEN IF I AM IN ONE OF THOSE WELL IT'S FREE MOODS, I DO IT GRACEFULLY AND APPRECIATIVELY WITH MY MOUTH SHUT AND DO NOT COMPLAIN ABOUT WHAT IT IS NOT.

MAN
I HAVE TURNED INTO ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE I STARTED OUT TALKING ABOUT......grrrrrrrwwwennnfed>kddddd

Race Relationships

So I am sitting here at my friends birthday party and a guy friend and I were talking about a relationship issue he is facing, and the whole time he is talking to me about his current non-relationship with this one chick the only thing that came to mind is that no matter what race or how old we are relationships are the same when it comes to male/female encounters across the board.

My friend is white and his non-girl is white and he was telling me how she comes up to his job and so forth. And I started to laugh because I have so many male friends that are black that tell me they are gonna start dating white women to avoid all the drama that comes along with dating "sistas".

Well all I have to say men is that relationship drama and the cause and effect factors never change. No matter what the race, creed or social-economic status you are relationship mishaps are pretty much the same. Especially when we are dealing with men a and women who are immature.

Don't think for a second men that white women will not put your shit outside, or show up to your job or put holes in condoms. Because they do.

I just read a BB message archive that proves it on my friends phone that proves it is so.

If you as man continually meet women who do not demonstrate stable behavior maybe you may want to take a look at your behavior and see what it is you are doing to merit such negative and unwanted rebuttals from the women you are dating.

Just food for thought.

j

Weight Loss Jounral 1

So I made a bet with a lady at church that we both had to have 20lbs off by the first of march and we made a little friendly wager.

I have started to this process and I am proud to say that thus far the scales are tipping in my favor.

I have used various weight loss remedies before that gave me instant results with minimal effort other than discipline.

Actually working towards this goal with the little progress I have made makes me feel good. I am doing it and I am doing it on my own. Well not completely. A friend trains me and I have a son who is "dieting" with me to help me loose the lbs and inches.

I will be sharing my progress with the www which will hopefully help me stay focused.

Like Ruby, I CAN.


j

Joseph

My sacrifice is for his growth and my heartache is for his joy. My love is all his and he is my world.

His laugh tickles me, his cry pricks me and his smile reminds me.

I believe in his dreams, chastise him for his behavior and build his esteem.

I will hoist him on my back throughout the hardest leg of the journey. I will tie him in my arms. I nurtured him in my womb.

I know he will be great, I want him to have success, I pray he will be happy

Joseph